Who We Are

AseeksB is a free personal ads and dating app for iOS and Android, built for people who want to describe what they are looking for in their own words instead of swiping through photos. Users can post text-first personal ads for casual dating, long-term relationships, kink-friendly dating, platonic connections, and missed connections, browse and reply, set age and gender audience settings, choose from 22 gender identities, use 90 searchable kink-related role tags, and report someone even after unmatching. AseeksB Supporter adds post stats, viewer insights, advanced search, Traveling Mode, more active posts, more messaging power, and additional controls. AseeksB is available worldwide on iPhone and Android.

AseeksB is a modern, kink-friendly personal ads app.

Our idea was simple.

Take everything we liked about old personal ads sites
and
everything we liked about the dating apps that came after.

remove
everything we didn't like about either.

And create a modern personal ads app that brought together
the best of both worlds.

Whether you're looking for something casual or something serious, AseeksB is an alternative to swipe-based apps that lets you say what you're looking for in your own words.

Available worldwide. Post from anywhere and search locally.

Learn more about our posting and messaging features below.

AseeksB app interface showing personal ads

How It Works

AseeksB app - set whose posts you will see

Set whose posts you'll see

AseeksB app - set who will see your post

Set who'll see your post

Post up to seven posts with Supporter

AseeksB app - post up to seven posts at once

Tap on your post to see it

AseeksB app - tap on your post to see it

Let them know you have pics

They can tap on your post to see them

Let them know you want pics

AseeksB app - let them know you want pics

They’ll have to attach some to message you

Photo attachment requirement in AseeksB app

AseeksB app - photo attachment required to message

Texting’s enabled only after a reply

AseeksB app - texting enabled only after a reply

Contact Us

contact@aseeksb.com

Transparency

Some sites and apps try to hide their users. Some even ask you to pay before they let you see who's nearby. We don’t do that here. Our key features are free, and we show you how many posts meet your search criteria.

Accountability

We’re serious about your safety, privacy, and time. At AseeksB we make it incredibly easy to report profiles, posts, or messages that don’t meet our guidelines. You can report message threads even after they’ve been unmatched. This means no more posts saying one thing, and private messages asking for something else. Reported posts get removed from all users’ Bulletin Boards, so your actions help others too.

Features

Searching and Messaging Features

Kink-friendly: You can choose to hide, include, or only see, kink-friendly posts
Kink-Related Roles: You can search for up to 90 kink-related roles
Couples' Posts: You can choose to hide, include, or only see, couples' posts
Search Criteria: You can search by post dating category, by the poster's gender, age, and distance, and you can hide traveling posters
Traveling Mode: With Supporter, you can travel to other locations and search for posts from there
Photos: You can choose to only see posts that have photos attached. And photos must be of the poster. See our Photo Guidelines for more info
Hide posts: If you’re not into a post, hide it. It’ll stay hidden even if the poster renews it
Hide profiles: If you’re not feeling a poster, you can hide all of their posts – no matter what category they’ve been posted to. This also hides all of your posts from them, so they won’t be able to message you either
Be Real: If you believe someone is misrepresenting themselves in order to circumvent your search criteria, report them. Any such attempt will lead to immediate action
Post Content: Posts have a minimum character requirement. And have to meet our Post Guidelines. So no more one-word self-summaries, or profiles that are only advertising social media.

Posting Features

Create Multiple Posts: We understand that people can have more than one way to express themselves. AseeksB offers 6 different post categories, lets users tag posts as kink-friendly, and Supporter unlocks up to 7 active posts at a time
Duplicate Posts: You can duplicate your post and edit it so you don't need to completely rewrite every post
Edit Posts: You can edit your post after posting it
Renew Posts: Posts can be renewed every 4 days. Renew yours to hop to the top of the queue
Roles: You can tag your post with up to 5 kink-related roles from the 90 that are available. Users can search for particular kink-related roles
Interests: You can add interests tags to show people what you like
Desires: If you're posting a kink-friendly post you can add your desires to it to show people what you're into
One Initial Message Per Post: Users can’t message you again until you reply. That means thoughtful messages. And no pestering
Audience: Choose who can see your post and who can message you. You can restrict your audience by gender, age, and location, and you can choose whether traveling users can see your post
Be Real: If you believe someone is misrepresenting themselves in order to circumvent your post’s criteria, report them. Any such attempt will lead to immediate action
Traveling Mode: With Supporter, you can travel to other locations and post from them. Searchers can choose to filter out traveling posts
Conversation: No more one-word, “Hi, Hey, Wyd,” initial messages. Initial messages have minimum character requirements, and they need to meet our Message Guidelines
Photos: There’s no requirement to attach photos to posts, but if a poster does, they have to be of the poster. See our Photo Guidelines for more info. Posters can also require those who message them to attach photos to their initial message

Know If It’s Working

Most personal ads vanish into silence, and you never learn whether anyone even saw them. With Supporter, AseeksB shows you the numbers: who viewed your post, how many people replied, and who you’re reaching by age, gender, and distance. It’s there to help you write a better post, not to watch anyone. See how to get more replies.

AseeksB Assist

AseeksB Assist is for when you know what you want, but getting the first version down is the hard part. Give it a few things about yourself, who you are hoping to find, and anything else that should shape it, then pick the draft that sounds closest. From there you can change anything: polish the wording, shift the tone, add a detail, shorten a long post, or suggest a title. Prefer to write every word yourself? You always can. See how AseeksB Assist works.

9:41Choose a starting point

Three takes, different tones

Pick the one that sounds most like you. You can edit it next.

Warm

Slow mornings and long walks are my thing. Looking for someone steady and easy to talk to, in no rush. If a quiet bookstore sounds good, say hello.

Direct

Here for something real, not a pen pal. I value low drama and people who say what they mean. Tell me what you are looking for.

Playful

I will make you a serious cup of coffee and overthink the playlist. Curious, a little observant. Come find out the rest.

AseeksB Supporter

AseeksB is free to use. Supporter is the full version for people who want more visibility, more reach, more control, and fewer limits: post stats, viewer insights, reply rates, advanced search, traveling mode, full AseeksB Assist access, Supporter-only mode, up to 7 active posts, unlimited messages and post views, rewinds, drafts, Title Mode, Dark Mode, one free Letter per month, and priority feature requests.

What's New

AseeksB Assist: a set of writing tools that help you say what you mean, in your own words. Assist works from your draft and keeps your voice, so your post still sounds like you.
Five ways to use it:

Polish: tighten and clean up your draft without changing what you mean.

Tone: shift the feel of your post, warmer, more direct, or more playful, while keeping your meaning.

Grow: turn a short draft into a fuller post when you are stuck for words.

Shorten: trim a long post down to what matters.

Title Suggest: get a title that fits what your post actually says.

Want something else?

Frequently Asked Questions

Privacy

We deeply believe in the right to privacy. Especially when it comes to one’s needs and desires. Please see our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service for additional information.