Who we are

AseeksB is a free personal ads and dating app for iOS and Android, built for people who want to describe what they are looking for in their own words instead of swiping on photos. It supports casual dating, long-term relationships, kink-friendly connections, and alternative dating use cases, including 90 searchable kink-related role tags and 22 gender identities. Users can control who sees each post and who can send a message, and report users even after being unmatched. All key features are free to use, with Supporter upgrades for people who want post stats, viewer insights, Traveling Mode, more active posts, and advanced controls. AseeksB is available worldwide on iPhone and Android.

AseeksB is a modern, kink-friendly personal ads app.

Our idea was simple.

Take everything we liked about old personal ads sites
and
everything we liked about the dating apps that came after.

remove
everything we didn't like about either.

And create a modern personal ads app that brought together
the best of both worlds.

Whether you're looking for something casual or something serious, AseeksB is an alternative to swipe-based apps that lets you say what you're looking for in your own words.

Available worldwide. Post from anywhere and search locally.

Learn more about our posting and messaging features below.

AseeksB app interface showing personal ads

How it Works

AseeksB app - set whose posts you will see

Set whose posts you'll see

AseeksB app - set who will see your post

Set who'll see your post

Post up to seven posts with Supporter

AseeksB app - post up to seven posts at once

Tap on your post to see it

AseeksB app - tap on your post to see it

Let them know you have pics

They can tap on your post to see them

Let them know you want pics

AseeksB app - let them know you want pics

They’ll have to attach some to message you

Photo attachment requirement in AseeksB app

AseeksB app - photo attachment required to message

Texting’s enabled only after a reply

AseeksB app - texting enabled only after a reply

Contact Us

contact@aseeksb.com

Transparency

Some sites and apps try to hide their users. Some even ask you to pay before they let you see who's nearby. We don’t do that here. Our key features are free, and we show you how many posts meet your search criteria.

Accountability

We’re serious about your safety, privacy, and time. At AseeksB we make it incredibly easy to report profiles, posts, or messages that don’t meet our guidelines. You can report message threads even after they’ve been unmatched. This means no more posts saying one thing, and private messages asking for something else. Reported posts get removed from all users’ Bulletin Boards, so your actions help others too.

Features

Searching and Messaging Features

Kink-friendly: You can choose to hide, include, or only see, kink-friendly posts
Kink-Related Roles: You can search for up to 90 kink-related roles
Couples' Posts: You can choose to hide, include, or only see, couples' posts
Search Criteria: You can search by post dating category, by the poster's gender, age, and distance, and you can hide traveling posters
Traveling Mode: With Supporter, you can travel to other locations and search for posts from there
Photos: You can choose to only see posts that have photos attached. And photos must be of the poster. See our Photo Guidelines for more info
Hide posts: If you’re not into a post, hide it. It’ll stay hidden even if the poster renews it
Hide profiles: If you’re not feeling a poster, you can hide all of their posts – no matter what category they’ve been posted to. This also hides all of your posts from them, so they won’t be able to message you either
Be Real: If you believe someone is misrepresenting themselves in order to circumvent your search criteria, report them. Any such attempt will lead to immediate action
Post Content: Posts have a minimum character requirement. And have to meet our Post Guidelines. So no more one-word self-summaries, or profiles that are only advertising social media.

Posting Features

Create Multiple Posts: We understand that people can have more than one way to express themselves. AseeksB offers 6 different post categories, lets users tag posts as kink-friendly, and Supporter unlocks up to 7 active posts at a time
Duplicate Posts: You can duplicate your post and edit it so you don't need to completely rewrite every post
Edit Posts: You can edit your post after posting it
Renew Posts: Posts can be renewed every 4 days. Renew yours to hop to the top of the queue
Roles: You can tag your post with up to 5 kink-related roles from the 90 that are available. Users can search for particular kink-related roles
Interests: You can add interests tags to show people what you like
Desires: If you're posting a kink-friendly post you can add your desires to it to show people what you're into
One Initial Message Per Post: Users can’t message you again until you reply. That means thoughtful messages. And no pestering
Audience: Choose who can see your post and who can message you. You can restrict your audience by gender, age, and location, and you can choose whether traveling users can see your post
Be Real: If you believe someone is misrepresenting themselves in order to circumvent your post’s criteria, report them. Any such attempt will lead to immediate action
Traveling Mode: With Supporter, you can travel to other locations and post from them. Searchers can choose to filter out traveling posts
Conversation: No more one-word, “Hi, Hey, Wyd,” initial messages. Initial messages have minimum character requirements, and they need to meet our Message Guidelines
Photos: There’s no requirement to attach photos to posts, but if a poster does, they have to be of the poster. See our Photo Guidelines for more info. Posters can also require those who message them to attach photos to their initial message

Know If It’s Working

Most personal ads vanish into silence, and you never learn whether anyone even saw them. With Supporter, AseeksB shows you the numbers: who viewed your post, how many people replied, and who you’re reaching by age, gender, and distance. It’s there to help you write a better post, not to watch anyone. See how to get more replies.

AseeksB Supporter

AseeksB is free to use. Supporter is the full version for people who want more visibility, more reach, more control, and fewer limits: post stats, viewer insights, reply rates, advanced search, Traveling Mode, Supporter-only mode, up to 7 active posts, unlimited messages and post views, rewinds, drafts, Title Mode, Dark Mode, one free Letter per month, and priority feature requests.

Coming Up

Hide read posts: Read it, not ready to message it, but don’t want to hide it forever? Hide read posts until you’re ready to see them again
Search & Post Criteria

Only verified users

Height range

Tags: zodiac sign, body type, politics, etc.

Hashtags: #D4s, #s4D, #poly, #asexual, #god, #atheist, etc. (when you want to get reaally specific)
Public events posts, along with updated related search criteria

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Frequently Asked Questions

Privacy

We deeply believe in the right to privacy. Especially when it comes to one’s needs and desires. Please see our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service for additional information.