Please respect the preferences people set when they post and when they reply. Consent is our overriding rule. Do not misrepresent yourself, what you're looking for, or who you want to meet. Choose the category that fits your post. Use recent photos of yourself. Do not claim an age, gender, sexuality, location, or identity that isn't yours. Be yourself, and respect each person's right to search for, see, contact, and be contacted by the people they're seeking.
Some people try to avoid reports by sending a harmful or scammy message and then unmatching. That doesn't work on AseeksB. You can report a message thread even after someone unmatches you. If someone isn't following these guidelines, please report the account so we can review it.
Posts should be accurately categorized. If you're looking for something short-term, do not post under long-term. It's okay to create a post without the kink-friendly tag and still mention that you happen to like some kink. But if you're looking for a D/s relationship, a kinky play partner, or a particular fetish or kink, the post should be tagged as kink-friendly. Miscategorized posts can be reported. Please respect readers' right to only see the kinds of posts they want to see.
AseeksB is for adults only. Content relating to or alluding to minors or anyone under 18 is not allowed. We will report serious violations to the authorities. If you see or suspect this violation, please report it immediately.
Fantasy, roleplay, or age-play involving minors is also not allowed. Intent is impossible to determine. Do not do it.
Commercial posts of any kind are not allowed. This includes soliciting or advertising subscription services, paid relationships or arrangements, merchandise, jobs, massages, therapeutic services, events, or anything else being sold or promoted.
Do not use posts to promote social media accounts or move people immediately to another platform. Lines like "not usually on here, message me on..." are not allowed. It's fine to exchange contact details after you've been messaging and both people want to continue elsewhere. It's not fine to use posts as a funnel for followers, subscribers, off-app payments, or policy workarounds.
Content that is violent, coercive, abusive, harassing, hateful, or degrading toward anyone else, including yourself, is not allowed. AseeksB allows a range of kink interests, but posts are public, and other users haven't consented to be exposed to graphic or abusive content.
Do not use AseeksB to share, sell, distribute, request, or advertise illegal drugs or drug use. This includes poppers and coded language such as "party friendly."
Discussion or promotion of fraud, illegal sexual acts, threats, or anything else that's against the law is not allowed. If it's illegal offline, please don't do it here.
AseeksB has a strict policy against paid services and compensated arrangements. This includes escorting, prostitution, pro sessions, sugar arrangements, FinDom, paid companionship, paid platonic time, or any arrangement involving compensation, gifts, tribute, roses, or similar code words. Do not ask to be paid for any service, on or off the app. Do not use AseeksB to move someone to another platform for payment, subscriptions, or services. Message threads can be reported even after someone unmatches you. Attempts to game this policy may result in a ban.
Bestiality, sexual content involving animals, or cruelty to animals is not allowed. We will report such violations.
Do not include personal contact information in posts, including phone numbers, addresses, email addresses, payment handles, or other direct contact details. Attempts to hide or spell out this information may still result in removal or a ban.
Do not include usernames or handles for other messaging services in your post. This includes requests to contact you on another app. It's fine to move to another app later if both people want to, but immediate off-app redirects, especially for money, subscriptions, followers, or policy workarounds, may result in a ban.
We don't allow one person to maintain multiple accounts. You may create multiple posts within the limits shown in the app, but repeated, duplicative, or spammy posting is not allowed. If we detect spam or coordinated multiple-account use, the accounts may be banned.
Do not pretend to be someone you're not. This includes misrepresenting your age, gender, location, photos, identity, or intentions. Parody accounts are not allowed. Do not try to bypass another person's filters or message someone if you don't meet the criteria they set.
Do not create posts warning people about another user, calling out another post, or trying to moderate the app yourself. If you have an issue with a post, message, or user, please report it so the team can review it.
Roleplay is allowed only when it doesn't violate these guidelines. Do not misrepresent yourself in your profile or post. Make it clear that you're roleplaying, and do not include prohibited themes such as minors, incest, coercion, illegal activity, or anything else covered by these rules.
Remember that you're ultimately dealing with strangers from the internet. Be cautious. Be wary of anyone asking for money, financial information, payment, gift cards, sign-ups, or off-app channels. Do not share financial information or send payment to anyone. Report suspicious behavior so we can review it. Enjoy the app, and thank you for joining!
